The Vargas Code

Every meeting begins with mutual respect.

I expect the same courtesy I give in return.

Rudeness, pressure, intimidation, harassment, aggression or deliberately humiliating behaviour has no place in my world.

All enquiries and meetings are strictly for adults aged 18 and over.

Comfort and mutual agreement matter.

A conversation, enquiry or previous meeting does not create an obligation.

Either person can change their mind.

If either of us is uncomfortable with something, that is enough.

A boundary is not an invitation to persuade, negotiate or pressure someone into changing it.

I am a straight man. My attraction is to women. Couples may enquire when the experience is centred around the woman, with clear boundaries and mutual comfort understood beforehand.

I treat people with respect regardless of nationality, background, identity or belief. I expect the same in return.

When a couple contacts me, both people should be comfortable with the enquiry.

I do not want to become a source of secrecy, pressure or competition inside someone else's relationship.

Clear communication between both partners matters.

Threats, intimidation, violence or deliberately dangerous behaviour end the conversation.

I do not participate in situations involving illegal drugs, weapons, threats or behaviour that places anyone at unnecessary risk.

What is shared with me privately is treated with discretion.

I do not ask for unnecessary personal information, and I expect the same respect for my privacy.

I make no technical promises about anonymity or deletion; I simply keep what is private, private, and ask for nothing I do not need.

Photos, video or audio recording require clear agreement beforehand.

No hidden recording.

No assumption that private moments may become public content.

Do not send me another person's private photographs, messages or personal information without their permission.

Restaurants, hotels, events and public spaces should be treated with respect.

I value people who understand how to behave appropriately without creating unnecessary attention or drama.

Hotels, private residences and venues may have their own visitor, identification and access policies.

Those rules must be respected. I have no influence over them and would not ask anyone to work around them.

I do not turn private meetings into public content without permission.

That standard should work both ways.

Please contact me when your interest is genuine.

Clear dates, location and general expectations make the conversation easier for both of us.

I aim to reply to genuine enquiries within 48 hours.

Travel, time zones and schedule may occasionally affect this, so it is an intention rather than a guarantee.

Your name, your city or destination, your preferred dates, whether you are writing as a woman or as a couple, your preferred contact method, a general idea of the meeting, and any important boundaries or practical requirements.

There is no need to write anything explicit. Clarity of intention is enough.

My presence in a city does not mean I am permanently based there or immediately available.

Every enquiry is considered individually.

Tell me your dates and location so we can discuss what is practical.

Plans sometimes change.

If they do, communicate as early as possible.

Repeated last-minute cancellations, dishonest communication or disrespectful behaviour may mean I decline future enquiries.